A little more than 12 years ago I started my American life as a graduate student. First few years, my life was a monotonous repetition of long cold nights in my attic den, day long lab and class and daily lunchtime walk to the student center for the 99c taco with a plastic glass of water. This lunchtime break with that taco was my window to the campus life and also indulgence into thinking of the far-away homeland and the left behind life.
One of my first observations of the student life in my campus was the ethnic segregation of the students in the students’ center cafeteria. Young white men and women are crowding around one table. Blacks have their own corner. First generation desi students are flocking together, so are the first generation Chinese or the second generation desis.
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This picture of the US life was in sharp contrast to the description of US I got from the booklets I received from USIS. I almost memorized the salad bowl versus melting pot concept. I saw all the glossy pictures of smiling blacks, whites, asians are chatting together in a green turf under a tree in the covers of college brochures.
And almost on a daily basis, while walking in cold Michigan or seating in a lonely corner table with the taco, my mind used to revolt. Just an uncontrollable feeling of escaping this self exile, simply running back to home sweet home, back to wild unbound youth. It is a dream of running barefoot, with other boys of the vicinity, crossing rice paddy and tiny streams, through people’s backyard, climbing the imposing wall of the mosque; only to catch the un-tethered kite flying aimlessly in the open sky.
Very recently, I discovered another person who had a stunningly similar urge to revolt. The same uncontrollable desire to throw everything away and running with the tethered kite. Exactly in the same fashion, bare foot, with bunch of bare body boys, through rice paddy, across people’s backyards.
The man with this same dream is Barack Obama. The day he received his acceptance letter from Harvard law school, he suddenly felt like revolting and going back to his boyhood days in Indonesia and start running, barefoot, after the tethered kite, across the rice paddy. [Source: Dreams from My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance. Author: Barack Obama].
Mr. Obama has just won a very hard-fought battle for Democratic Party presidential nomination. I support and wish all the best for Mr. Obama. How can I not support Mr. Obama when our spur of a moment dream, although so unlikely for someone living in USA, are so much similar.
I wish a Barack Obama presidency not only because we shared a dream, but also because I see Mr. Obama as a revolutionary. He is a revolutionary who has already stepped, very boldly, the first steps in alleviating the disgusting ethnic segregation in American society I watched with horror during my initial days in USA.
Mr. Obama is the presumptive nominee today because those white young men and women has finally joined hands with those black youth of the next table for one goal. This is a strong statement from young America to leave behind the racial distrust some in the older generation still nurtures deep inside them.
Godspeed, Barack.
June 5, 2008 at 6:41 am
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June 5, 2008 at 7:55 am
Is that a typo for ‘goodspeed’ or did you really mean ‘godspeed’?
June 5, 2008 at 10:37 am
Its Godspeed.
June 5, 2008 at 1:56 pm
Nuru and Toru in the land of McCain & Obama
AUSTIN — This is a tale of two brothers from Dhaka, Nuru and Toru, who have lived in the United States for some 35 years, but who find themselves on different sides in the current debate on race relations and presidential politics in America and whether or not to elect Obama over McCain for the U.S. presidency.
Toru is an American citizen and Nuru is not. Toru is moved that the African Americans are finally making their headway to the White House. Nuru is socially conservative who believes in majoritarianism and the true structural hierarchy of race as a political prerogative of the predominant white race in America. So he is not at all impressed with the bid of Obama for the White House and feels that Obama is not electable.
Nuru arrived in Ann Arbor in 1960 to study Engineering. Toru followed him a year later to study Computer Science at the University of Texas. When they left Bangladesh, they were almost identical in appearance and attitude. They dressed alike, in punjabis and pants with a Chayanot jhola on their shoulders; they expressed identical views on politics, social issues, love and marriage in the same educated-Dhaka Ekushey type middle-class accent. Both Nuru and Toru would endure their four years in America, secure their degrees, then return to Bangladesh to marry the brides of their mother’s choosing.
Instead, Nuru married a Bangladeshi citizen in 1962 who was getting her degree in Child Psychology at Wayne State University. They soon acquired the labor certifications necessary for the green card of hassle-free residence and employment.
Nuru still lives in Detroit, works in the Pontiac, Mich., General Motors headquarters, and has become nationally recognized for his fuel efficient and aero-dynamic automobile designs. After 36 years as a legal immigrant in this country, Nuru clings passionately to his Bangladeshi citizenship and hopes to go home to Bangladesh when he retires.
In Austin in 1963, Toru married a fellow student, an American of African decent. Because of the accident of her Illinois birth, Toru bypassed labor-certification requirements and the race-related “quota” system that favored the applicant’s country of origin over his or her merit. Toru was prepared for (and even welcomed) the emotional strain that came with marrying a woman outside his Bangladeshi ethnic community. In 33 years of marriage, Toru and his African American wife have lived in every part of North America. By choosing a wife who was not his mother’s selection, Toru was opting for fluidity, self-invention, hot-dogs, hamburgers, blue jeans and T-shirts, and renouncing 3,000 years (at least) of ethnicity-observant, “pure culture” marriage in his Bangladeshi family. Toru’s opinions about this have often been unapologetic (and in some quarters overenthusiastic). His cultural and psychological “mongrelization” was joyous.
Nuru and Toru have stayed brotherly close by phone. In their regular Sunday morning conversations, they are unguardedly affectionate. Toru is the only blood relative of Nuru on this continent. They expect to see each other through the looming crises of aging and ill health without being asked. Long before Obama’s movement and campaign for the United States presidency, Nuru and Toru had their polite arguments over the desirability and electability of Obama versus Hillary and McCain while expecting the ushering of civil rights and ending of informal segregation in the American society from schools to workplace. Non-discrimination is a social benefit that both Nuru and Toru believe should come with living and working in America.
Like well-raised brothers, they never said what was really on their minds about Obama against Hillary or McCain and the possibility of any improvement in race relations in American society, but they probably pitied one another on each other’s political position and perceptions with respect to the electibility of Obama against McCain or Hillary. Nuru pitied Toru for his lack of structure in political perception, the erasure of cultural authenticity and ethnic purity in the American presidential politics. Toru pitied Nuru for the narrowness of Nuru’s conservative political consciousness, his uninvolvement with the mythic depths of the rap culture or the superficial liberal pop culture of the American society. But, now, with the scapegoating of the notion of “third” term for George Bush by electing Mccain on the rise, and the targeting of political conservatives like Karl Rove for new scrutiny and new self-consciousness, Nuru and Toru find themselves unable to maintain the same polite discretion. Nuru and Toru were always unacknowledged adversaries, and they are now, more than ever, brothers.
“I feel used,” Nuru raged on the phone the other night. “I feel manipulated and discarded by the movement to elect Obama.” This is such an unfair way to elect a person to the United States Presidency who was invited on political Affirmative Action as an up and coming minority politician to lead the United States as the commander in chief because of his race in a time of rapidly changing racial demographics of America. Hillary Clinton had over 16 years of political service and 8 long years as Bill Clinton’s partner that took America and Dow Jones to the pinnacle of economic prosperity. Since Obama was a child in South Chicago, Hillary and McCain invested their knowledge, judgment, experience and creativity into the improvement of America’s welfare. McCain has fought in wars and risked his life. He then served for many decades in the senate foreign relations committee. Hillary prepared the Clinton healthcare plan and authored a successful agenda of economic recovery since the end of the First Gulf War (1991). How dare America now change its preference in presidential choice in the democratic primaries to elect a modestly experienced, upstart African American and only one time elected senator from Illinois in midstream? If America wants to make better choices for presidential candidates, they should only risk their political decision on long experienced and well qualified candidates on good judgment. In Nuru’s opinion, Obama seriously lacked the former although he possessed the latter and Nuru strongly felt that the U.S. Democratic Party voters are on the verge of electing another Jesse Ventura to the White House or they found another way to loose another election, this time to John Mccain.
Nuru is an expatriate, professionally generous and creative, socially courteous and gracious, and that’s as far as his Americanization can go. He is here to maintain an identity, not to transform it.
Toru asked Nuru if Nuru would follow the example of others who have decided to vote for Obama because they are also minorities in the U.S. like him. And here, he surprised him. “If the minorities in America want to play the manipulative game of race, the expatriates who support the White majority Americans will play it too,” he snapped. “I’ll become a Republican Party voter for this election only, and then change back to being a registered Democratic Party Voter next time when I see a politician from the White Anglo-Saxon Protestant mainstream nominated by the Democratic Party. I feel some kind of irrational attachment to the White Anglo-Saxon Protestant Americans that I don’t to the Democratic Party. Until all this hysteria about electing Obama, I was totally happy. Having my American nationality meant I could enjoy my apple pie in my upscale white suburb in Detroit with the peace of mind that the commander in chief represents the European cultural values of the mainstream of people in the United States and we will not be ruled by a rap subculture out of Harlem that could potentially disturb my Beethoven’s 5th symphony every morning.”
In one family, from two brothers alike as peas in a pod, there could not be a wider divergence of immigrant experience influencing presidential candidate preference. America spoke to Toru — He married it — He embraced the demotion from expatriate aristocrat to immigrant nobody unlike his brother Nuru, surrendering those thousands of years of “pure Bengali culture,” the Elish maach that he buys every week from the local ethnic grocery, the delightfully accented English. He retained them all. Which of us is the freak?
June 5, 2008 at 7:35 pm
#4
Superb!
June 6, 2008 at 7:13 am
Rumi bhai: I enjoyed your piece…I have been suffering a little from writer’s block and found some inspiration from your piece and the little gem about Toru and Nuru. Shoot me a line and lets reconnect. Cheers, Shujon
June 6, 2008 at 10:09 pm
#5: Thanks.
#6: Are you related to late Mintu uncle? I believe we know each other. Please send me an email at: Gametheorist0001@yahoo.com
June 10, 2008 at 4:18 am
Wow. Its a long time since I am here…and I am thinking it was a mistake. What an appallingly gushing article about a politician.
Let me be very narrow and think about a matter close to my heart. World peace. Did you hear the man’s speech at AIPAC? Let me quote Uri Avenery: “Obama’s declarations at the AIPAC conference are very, very bad for peace. And what is bad for peace is bad for Israel, bad for the world, and bad for the Palestinian people.”
June 10, 2008 at 7:31 pm
Barack Obama may look like the Messiah For Change when in reality he’s just another Bildeberg Boy controlled by the Illuminati.
http://www.thetruthseeker.co.uk/article.asp?ID=8735
June 10, 2008 at 7:58 pm
Rice Crisis & Oil Price Swindle
Artifical Famine made by the Illuminati ruled by the Satanic Jewish Bankers and Jesuits.
http://pacificfreepress.com/content/view/2533/81/
http://www.thetruthseeker.co.uk/article.asp?ID=8536
http://www.heising.dk/content.asp?Id=270
There is no shortage of food; it’s just the prices that are making food unaffordable. Bernanke’s “weak dollar” policy has ignited a wave of speculation in commodities which is pushing prices into the stratosphere. The UN is calling the global food crisis it a “silent tsunami”, but its more like a flood; the world is awash in increasingly worthless dollars that are making food and raw materials more expensive.
Foreign central banks and investors presently hold $6 trillion in dollars and dollar-backed assets, so when the dollar starts to slide, the pain radiates through entire economies.
This is especially true in countries where the currency is pegged to the dollar.
June 10, 2008 at 10:12 pm
Response to No-10
Dear Mr. Welch,
A few months ago I stated that Investment Bankers(Goldman Sachs, Lehman Brothers, Roth Child etc.) were the mothers of all unjust throughout the world. Being an Ex-employee of one of such companies, I observed insider’s game and found out that Rense, Truth seeker, WRH etc’s write ups on satanic impact of derivatives, Asset Swaps and many other financial fusses were not only true to the core but also World-Jewary ran instutions were behind in waging unjust killings, segregation & monetary manipulation etc. What shivered me the most was Iraqi & Afghan genocides along with current food crisis falling in their GRAND GAME PLAN to control strategic resources by impoverishing, malnourishing, intimatidating ‘NOT CHOSEN PEOPLE OF GOD’ (Note that original Torah doesn’t exist, so there is no way to find out the authenticity of Zion’s proclamation of CHOSEN PEOPLE OF GOD thus it is another catch-22 like holohaux). Furhtermore their conniving infiltration in our security agencies led unprecendted suffering of ‘THEIR DISLIKED’ politicians(http://www.daily-dinkal.com/details.php?nid=19954&pubdate=2008-06-10). I guess exposing them in every possible way should be the motto for all good people.
July 26, 2008 at 8:08 am
Holding anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.TheBuddhaThe Buddha