Two-room flat. Father, mother, 4 siblings and the uncle; all live together in the 500 sq feet residential quarter. Father, mother and the youngest of the kids live in one bedroom. Other room is shared by the two sisters, one college and one high school going. The other brother, also in high school and the uncle, who is struggling with his small business after graduation, shares the bed which occupies a part of the living room. There is a small balcony, which is occupied with household items like an extra chair, a broken table, a shelf. If you somehow manage to stand in the balcony and try to look out through the clothes hanged for drying, your vision will be obstructed at 2 feet distance, where another multistory building houses another 24 families. The windows at one side of the house are almost of no use, thanks to the neighbors’ flat which is built keeping almost no gap between the buildings.
Dhaka has an estimated weeknight population of 8 million. My guess, the majority of this 8 million will probably live in a condition I just described.
While we remain very concerned about socialist or socialism-leaning nationalism, tangential dealings with Islamism, reforms in idealism turned populism etc, the members of the family have different ‘less important’ things to be concerned with. You go and talk to any member of that family. They will only tell you about the hell they are living in without committing any crime. These days the mercury has risen beyond 4o C in parts of Bangladesh. Those closed airtight boxes called flats are now hot air ovens. The souls living inside those pits are roasted nightly even when the ceiling fan tries unsuccessfully to shed some relief. And lately, with regular load shedding, the hell gets uglier.
Most of you who will read this will never feel how unbearable it can be to pass those sleepless hot humid nights unless you yourself lived that life.
But at least we can try to think. Just think of the girls at home. Dad and the boys can remain bare bodied with a short or a lungi on. But girls would still be adherent to the modest dress code a Bangladeshi middle class family follows. The thing called hatpakha (Hand fan) will be moving with the beat of the heart, only for some relief from the unbearable heat and humidity. There is, in fact no place to escape the oven. The roof is locked by the home owner. The road in front of is already crowded by street people where the members of the family we are talking about are not welcome. You will put yourself down the shower to cool down? That is not going to happen. There is water rationing and over that, as there is no electricity, there is no water supply.
If you feel bad at the misfortune of this family, you should not walk through the slum down the road. One small packing box and sac make shanty houses a family of 6, the oldest one is 28 and the youngest one is 3 month. Let’s keep them to be discussed some other day.
Let’s talk about something else. If you think of issues of Bangladesh, problems of Bangladesh, pangs of Bangladesh, please think of that college going girl first. She, with her traditional salwar-kamis-orna, is roasting every night in an unbearable cruel living condition. For her, the future is to move to another similar box as a house wife and then as a mother only to be assigned to the kitchen, the hottest place of the oven. And for the struggling uncle or the boy of the family, what they have in the future? Live the life in this box? Or somehow become Deshantori through the roughs of the Mediterranean or the arid deserts? Or should they try to change the star at home following the path the guys named Giasuddin Al Mamun or Tokai Shagor or Pichci Hannan etc tried?
Folks, what solution you have to make the life of these 80% a bit more comfortable? What would be your advice that will help them change their stars? Any answer my friends?
The members of the family keep waiting for the sleepless unbearable night to be over with. But these summer nights are too long.
May 5, 2007 at 8:00 pm
Rumi,
I think you have nicely expressed what I think we should think more than the hot political topics. The picture you depicted is absolutely right and to be honest, I don’t see any quick change or solution to these things. And I also don’t know what we can do to fix them.
I believe the expatriates can also play a major role- provided we have some trustworthy, saavy people onsite who would spend some of their time in attempting to change things.
May 5, 2007 at 10:41 pm
Lyfe is so sad when looked at. We need a revolution.We need a revolution to break free this poverty and make it a modern secular democratic job_for_all country (something similar to South Korea or Thailand or Malaysia or America). We can do it. But we need to break free. There is no free lunch in this earth. We need to make our own lunch. It is time we make it. Don’t you agree?
May 5, 2007 at 10:52 pm
Nice write-up, Rumi.
I guess there is no overnight solution. We will have to work with long-term goals. Transforming the lives of 150 million people is a huge task. That too by fixing the mismanaged and broken political, economic, and social system.
I personally believe we will have to invest in education and technology to change our lives relatively fast. Dr. Muhammad Zafar Iqbal with other dedicated people are doing a nice job in inspiring young people, arranging mathematics and computer programming contests, and other such activities. Abdullah Abu Syed is doing a great job with Bishwa Shahitto Kendro. CPD, Prothom Alo, Daily Star, Professor Mujaffar Ahmed, and many other such people and organizations are doing their bits in trying to make a dream Bangladesh.
For us the NRBs, I think we can help our country by exporting our education and training here back to Bangladesh. We can contribute (individually or team efforts) money, books, research equipments, etc. to the schools/colleges/universities of our country. We can pay for the Internet fee of a school. These are some of the many ways we can help the country.
The bottom line of my points is we must emerge as an educated nation. We must know the use of technology for our social and economic developments. We must realize our limitations of feeding well 150 million people in a very small land of 55,000 square miles. We will have to love our country like the Israelis love their country. They have a very small land, yet they are one of the strongest nation in the world, both militarily and economically.